Heal Your Broken Heart

I love him but he don’t love me anymore. He used too. My heart has shattered into a million pieces over a guy and I’m only 13

I have asked this question a couple of times and the answers I get are ‘forget’ ‘move on’ ‘time will heal’

None of them work: I need a jolt of genius from one of you that changes what is in my head. Practical, physical things don’t work.

I am hoping some very clever person out there can offer me a pearl of wisdom that can change my thoughts, not my habits.

My thinking has to change. I have become fixated and addicted to the person who doesn’t love me any more.

Don’t tell me to get a hobby, take exercise, move on, read a book, let go.

I can’t. I have read books and everything else. And if you are going to write ‘Time Heals’ then don’t because it doesn’t and it hasn’t.

I am not interested in someone answering the nugget of wisdom that it is obsessive because I already know that it is and that won’t be helpful.

I need genius ideas to change my thinking and to stop me loving this person and thinking about them.

Don’t reply if you have nothing new to say.

Thanks is advance.

I have been going through a painful situation lately. I thought this guy I’ve been going out with loved me like I loved him. But I’ve discovered that I was very mistaken. He doesn’t feel love for me at all – only physical attraction. He pursued me in the beginning and I fell for him real hard. I had hoped that our relationship would grow, but it hasn’t. And now I find out that there are other girls that he has been seeing behind my back. I broke up with him, and he wants me to reconsider and give him another chance but I don’t want to get hurt by him again…ever. It has been pure hell, and while I still love him a lot, his insensitivity and betrayal have really affected our relationship and things are never going to be the same again. I don’t want him back. But what are some ways to heal my heart from this pain and get over him?

I broke up with my bf of 5 years who told me he couldnt be faithful anymore, I take it as permanent dead thing and started dating a new guy. My ex after a month from the break asked me to work things out because I was the one he desired, I always refused but never been rude to him, always acted nice and friendly because i still cared but I said I couldnt trust him. After 2 months I stopped dating the new guy who revealed being a bigger a**hole… My ex again tried a re-connection but after some time stopped abruptly after he met a girl and did commit after 2 days, so now he has a new gf.
I cant believe, I feel bad again when I was starting to think I was over him…
I know I wouldnt want him back because things wont function again, but It hurts as hell to know I’m no more in his heart and a new person will make him happy. He still means much to me. He asked me why I’m so jealous if I havent care about him for months…I dunno….I wanna heal my heart….

The Heart Speaks (Are You Listening?)
Loneliness, anger, and grief can break hearts as easily as high blood pressure. To heal the heart, feel the love.
By Jeanie Lerche Davis
WebMD FeatureReviewed by Brunilda Nazario, MDA broken heart: It’s the stuff of folk songs, the stuff of true love. There are plenty of couples who have died within weeks, months, or even days of each other. Johnny Cash’s death certificate listed complications from diabetes, but his fans know otherwise — he passed away just months after June’s death.

Doctors will tell you, broken heart syndrome or stress-induced heart failure is a medical condition — and a perfect example of the heart’s power and vulnerability, writes Mimi Guarneri, MD, a practicing cardiologist and author of the book, The Heart Speaks. The condition seems to be caused by high levels of hormones that the body produces during severe stress, which can be temporarily toxic to the heart.

In her book, Guarneri weaves the latest medical knowledge with her own personal experiences — hoping to spur conversations that pull people out of their stressful lifestyles. She wants to help them cope better with life-threatening emotions like grief, anger, anxiety, stress.

I want people to start looking at their lives and see how these events, this stress, grief, anger has affected their health, she says.

I wish I was a litte girl again,
because bruised knees heal faster then a broken heart.